13 wining factors to Marriage/ Relationship

13 wining factors to Marriage/ Relationship

13 wining factors to Marriage/ Relationship

Every Marriage/relationship has its ups and downs, troubles, storm, pain moments and happy moments.

i will reveal  13 wining factors to marriage/relationship i praticalarly experienced within marriage, and also learnt from my parents while growing up.

First of all compatibility comes first before we even talk about relationship or marriage - you need to be compatable in all areas, compatibilty socially, ways of thinking and sexually" compatibility sexually is not negotiable and it is very important, marriage/ relationship can bring two different chracters together and   this is where love play a significant  role in having a bonded relationship/ marriage.

  1.  Choose a God fearing partner when making a choice, with the fear of God your marriage will overcome any challenges in any form, shape, or manner.  
  2.  Mutaul respect - in marriage there is no superiorty and there is no inferiority, if you have mutual respect for your partner you will continue to grow.
  3.  Total and uncoditional submission  especailly from the woman to the man and also from the man to the woman.. if youre a man and youre married to a submissive wife please men dont take it for grantend, see it as a pack of blessing from God to you.
  4. Words of Appreciation - when you wake up every morning always take time out to appreciate each other, in the afternoon and night before bed time appreciate each other.
  5.  Having a forgiving spirit - 'To hell is human, to forgive is divine", if you have the fear of God this is not a task that you can not achieve. always forgive each other.
  6. Make your partner your best friend, when you Marry or in  a relationship with your best friend, you have everything and very easy for you.
  7.  Be responsible - as a man its  your responsibiliy to takecare of the home and make provision for the family and as a woman you should support and compliment your partner, because you have nothing to loose but alot to gain.
  8. There should not be competition between partners it does not make any sense.
  9.  Having Patience -  Patience is a Virtue  if you want to live peaceful, happily together, you need to have patience.
  10. Loyality - you should be fateful and truthful  to your partner, dont trust an outsider morethan your partner, when you say you are Loyal in your relationship/Marriage always mean it.
  11. Avoid third party in your relationship/ Marriage - because they break marriage/relationship, what they tolorate in thier respective relationship/marriage  they will advice you not to take it, just like an adage that says there is no way a lizard can penetrate into the wall except there is  a crack on the wall,  they can penetrate into your relationship/marriage except you give them the permission to meddle in your affairs, so try as hard as you can to avoid third party.
  12.  Edurance is very important from the beginging of the relationship/marriage  to the  end, you must endure.
  13. Tolerance - Marriage/relationship without tolorance crahses from the begining,  you have to tolorate each other because you have diffenent backgrounds, tolorance will give room for pure understanding of each other.